Conditioned Blindness and a Corrupted State of Mind

In my experience as a coach and trainer I have noticed that most people are stuck in patterns. Patterns that keep repeating themselves, even as the scenery changes: same play, different actors. It looks that patterns of habit, thinking and experience seem to miraculously influence our mind so that the old pattern keeps repeating itself.

I will explain with two recent examples that I have noticed this week in my own life.

I have a friend of mine, which I will call Luke, as to not reveal his real name. He has been complaining that most of his life he never had anyone give anything to him. He was always there for others, but he himself got nothing in return. Now in the beginning of the week, I left him a message that he could go to an event, which I know he tremendously loves and he would do anything to be there. Due to circumstances, I had a ticket for this event, worth 700$ and could not attend anymore. I offered to give it to him for free.
Now the beauty is that he normally always reads his email or looks at his phone everyday. This week, I could not get hold of him. He had decided, for a reason still unknown to him, not to answer, listen or look to any mails or phone messages this week. Result, the ticket had expired by the time he came back online and he lost a gift worth 700$.

Exemple two: I have a dear friend, I will call her Lily, who would like to earn some more money. We are currently working on a project that involves several disciplines of knowledge. She has the feeling / belief that people do no value her enough for what she does. Now as everyone is paid for all the other aspects of the project, her expertise is not because the client decided just recently to do that part of the equation themselves, even if they do not have any knowledge about the subject, whereas all the other aspects of the project, which are more simple in nature, the client is easily willing to pay money.

It is so fascinating to see how patterns always enforce themselves and keep repeating themselves. It is as if we carry an energy signature with us that keeps hunting us everywhere we go, letting us make the wrong decisions, do the wrong things in a corrupted state of mind... so as not to escape our pattern.

What is your pattern you have difficulty escaping off?

Cris
Cyres
 

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